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Dating & Relationships

Modern dating vocabulary.

Bae

A term of endearment for a partner — sometimes backronymed as "before anyone else".

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Pookie

An affectionate term of endearment for a partner or close friend.

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Situational Ick

An ick triggered by circumstances rather than the person themselves.

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Slow Burn

A romance that develops gradually over a long period, usually in fiction.

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Situationship Anxiety

The specific stress of not knowing where you stand with someone.

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Yearning

Longing for someone intensely and unproductively, usually enjoyed as much as suffered.

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Delusionship

A relationship that exists mainly in your own head.

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Pick Me

Someone who seeks approval by putting down others of their own group.

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Roster

The set of people someone is casually dating or talking to at the same time.

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Sneaky Link

A secret romantic or sexual partner nobody knows about.

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Catfish

Someone using a fake online identity, usually with stolen photos, to deceive people romantically.

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Cuffing Season

The autumn and winter months when people seek relationships to see them through the cold.

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DTR

Define The Relationship — the conversation about what you actually are to each other.

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Hard Launch

Publicly announcing a relationship with a clear, unambiguous post.

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Soft Launch

Hinting at a new relationship online without showing your partner's face or name.

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Future Faking

Making detailed promises about a shared future with no intention of following through.

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Love Bombing

Overwhelming someone with affection and attention early on, as a means of gaining control.

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The Bar Is in Hell

An observation that expectations of partners have fallen absurdly low.

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Beige Flag

A quirk that's neither good nor bad — just distinctly, endearingly odd.

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Green Flag

A sign that someone is emotionally healthy and worth pursuing.

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Red Flag

A warning sign about someone's character or behaviour.

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Dry Texting

Replying with minimal effort — one word, no questions, no energy.

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Curving

Deflecting someone's romantic interest without directly rejecting them.

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Slow Fade

Gradually reducing contact until a relationship ends without anyone saying so.

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